hey serene! your bday plans so far sounds fine to me. but i cant help feeling your paranoia though =) hehe.. relax.. im sure things will turn out good, though i wun be able to make it for the actual thing. by the way.. small typo in ur invitation blog.. it's F.Y.I. not FIY rite? cant be DIY rite? or does FIY mean something which i dunno.

yeah felly. haha my typo!

uhm.. i think it's better to re-confirm with the pple if they are REALLY coming or not though you may appear to sound naggy or desperate... hehe. but better to be practical here and do ur double-checking. dun wanna let the food go to waste.

is ur food going to be catered? or cooked by ur parents? the menu seems more for party food not the dinner kind.

my mom's biz does cater food. tt means she's the cook la. haha. buffet style. like party la!

what decorations do you need or plan to have? where are you going to get it?

deco just minor stuff la. nothing much in mind yet. prob ikea/spotlight. any other suggestion?

and who actually are your helpers?

hahaha. huimin huimin and huimin.. ok laoda, py, xinyi.. i dun think i need many helpers though.

as for the music rite.. which songs are you choosing? techno? pop? classical??!! are you going to allocate someone the task of changing the cds when each is finished?

music.. i will ahem.. urm.. b***. haha piracy rampant now. cannot spell it out. put on repeat mode la. one disc.

how about entertainment? since there's no tv or wat.. pple will get sian one.. don't think there are many mutual friends in between the gps of pple u're inviting rite.. so everyone will be apart in gps.. unless they are happy with just mingling in their own gps while u hop around. and some couples may start wandering off the party ground. is that ok with you? hmm.. dunno leh. hire some strippers? hehe.. swimming competition sounds fun though.. haha.. but.. -____-'''

we were thinking poker cards. couples? not many. they can wander off i dun mind.

you can answer the questions by editing my post and writing in another colour lar..

any other areas u wanna refine for me?
anyway thanks!